How to fix and survive a bad haircut

October 18, 2009

in Hair,How To/Tips

bad-haircut

I write about this topic today because I have once again gotten a bad haircut. (Story of my life.)

I asked for a ‘Jennifer Aniston‘, and … I didn’t get it. It’s horrible and definitely not what I asked for – now I shall go through the 6 months grieving period! However, most haircuts tend to grow out after 2 to 3 months, so it’s not too long if you think about it, although very painful at first! Here’s what you do when you have get a terrible haircut.

  • Complain

I don’t like to do this – but sometimes it’s needed. If you are truly unhappy and it’s completely different than what you asked for, you as a customer has the right to voice your concern and get what you actually asked for. None of the, ‘B*TCH, OH NO YOU DID-N’T’ and finger wagging, just politely go up to the hairdresser and try not to make a scene. Chances are they will be more than happy to fix it for you – it is a business and they want happy customers.

  • Find another hairdresser

This is pretty risky as well, but if the haircut is so horrible and you fear that if you talk to the hairdresser you might strangle her, go somewhere else. And please follow my tip on how to get the hair you want from a hairstylist. Find photos of what you want – and don’t want – and ask them if there is anyway your awful cut can be saved. Find a place that has a good reputation or ask a friend to recommend her hairdresser.

  • Hair Extensions

Most (by most I mean all) of my disaster haircuts were that they cut off too much. I’d always ask for a 2 inch trim, and get 6 inches instead. Why does that always happen?! Either way, you can bet I have spent my fair share of money on hair extensions. There are many options available: clip ins, weaves, glue, braided in, you name it. The best I’d recommend are the braided in ones – it’s not damaging to the hair like those crazy glue ones. Also, clip ins are the most convenient, you can always take them off before bed (hair extensions are really annoying to sleep with).

  • Play around with new looks

This is a good time to get your creative juices flowing. Also, it could be good to get a new ‘look’, especially if you’ve had the same hair for years. You might even find a look you like! Sometimes, a bad haircut can look better styled differently. For example, my God-awful cut looks decent curled, so I’ll be bringing out the hot rollers for the next few months! Try changing the style – it might look better straight/wavy/curly. For example, if you have curly hair and it was cut too much, straightening it will make it look longer. You can also try to change the parting to play around with the lengths. Tie it up, pin it back, twist it around, curl it, crimp it; anything. Hopefully something will look acceptable.

I won’t suggest wearing a ponytail everyday for the next 6 months (although you could), but there are plenty of awesome hairstyles that are updos. These hairstyles I wrote about will hide any weird cuts, and are very stylish and beautiful!

  • Accessories

Bring out the hats, scarves, wigs; everything. If you’re that ashamed, I guess a face mask would solve everything. Hair will grow out after 2 months and your haircut could look surprisingly OK after that. Meanwhile, you could always use accessories to hide it.

  • Hair Vitamins

I have never tried any before but I do hear that some may work. I have heard prenatal tablets also do wonders for hair growth. HOWEVER please do your research and ask your doctor before you take anything. Hopefully no one is that desperate or has that bad a haircut – I really hate screwing up with your body just for the sake of ‘beauty’!

  • Shave it off

My friend (who is male and doesn’t understand our pain, obviously) says the only way to save yourself from a horrible haircut is to shave it all off. Yeah, right.

  • … Or, just accept it

So the shaving thing didn’t sound so appealing, did it? But really, what can you do? After the millionth bad haircut (like me) you learn to accept it. It’s only hair after all. In the meantime, it’s always good to take care of the hair you do have right now. Avoid harsh heat and chemicals, and deep condition regulary. That way, your hair will grow out nice and healthy.

For tips on how to grow out your bangs/fringe, check out this post.

Those are my tips on surviving a bad haircut. At the end of the day, like I said, as horrible as it looks – it’s only hair. I would say the best tips that have helped me the most were tying my hair in updos (which I do most of the time anyway so I think I’m safe) and hair extensions. However, most of my problems were lopsided and too short cuts; it could be way different for you! What do you do when you get a bad haircut? I’d love to hear any added tips and any horror stories of haircuts from hell! :)

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{ 22 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Amanda October 18, 2009 at 1:59 pm

Vitamins absolutely work for hair growth, but prenatals or “hair and nail” vitamin formulas usually aren’t the best route for effectiveness and price. Several years ago, I started a regimen I found online written by a member of a hair care forum. I cleared it with my doctor, who nearly jumped for joy at the prospect of someone wanting to supplement. :) I’ve tweaked the regimen slightly for my own lifestyle, and using it I get one and a half to two inches of growth a month. (Yeah, I measure it. I’m pretty obsessed with my hair.) :) Not only is the growth amazing, the health of my hair increased tenfold. My hairdresser told me earlier this week that I have the healthiest hair she’s ever seen. Who doesn’t want to hear that?

Google “Bargello’s Vitamin Regimen”. It really does work! You’ll find lots of forum posts and blog entries of people who have tried it and love it.

But I’m sorry to hear you got a bad haircut. :( Is the salon going to make it right?
Amanda´s last blog … Zoya’s fall collection

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2 Renee October 20, 2009 at 10:28 am

Oh wow, thanks Amanda. I researched it and there is a lot of stuff to take! Are you taking all of that?! I’ll have to look into it though, I don’t know where to find half of the stuff, haha. That’s good you cleared it with your doctor though, and thank goodness I found someone as obsessed as hair like me :)

Nope, I’m not going back – EVER – because I’m scared she’ll make it worse. I’ll just wait for it to grow out :(

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3 Amanda October 23, 2009 at 8:46 am

I’m taking most of it. :) I swapped the flaxseed oil for krill oil, skip the protein shakes since I get a TON of protein in my diet, and take a few extra supplements for various things. I get all my vitamins at Puritan’s Pride (http://www.puritan.com/). My husband takes the same regimen, give or take a few, and we pay just over $90 a year. If we bought ours in expensive vitamin stores like GNC, we’d probably be bankrupt. :)

Obsessing over hair is just one of the reasons it’s so fun to be female. :D

Is she the only stylist at that salon? What a shame. I hope you AT LEAST got your cash back.
Amanda´s last blog … Zoya’s fall collection

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4 Renee October 23, 2009 at 2:14 pm

Wow … dedication! I am using coconut oil to my roots because I hear it’s a good conditioner and makes hair grow faster… it seems to be working so far. Maybe you can try it as well? And yes, hair is so fun! :-P Can’t wait til I have long hair again (or something that looks sane).

And no she wasn’t the only one but she worked on me. And no to cash back – and it was pretty expensive! I was so angry i just wanted to leave the place then called my mom to VENT badly. And then I wrote this post LOL. :-P

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5 Amanda October 24, 2009 at 7:13 am

I love oils for my hair. I use coconut and jojoba, but my favorite hair oil is camellia. I wrote a post on my blog on natural hair treatments, and camellia oil took up most of the post! :) It is AMAZING!
Amanda´s last blog … Sephora Friends and Family Sale!

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6 ana laura October 18, 2009 at 11:51 pm

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA I LOVED THE PICTURE!!!!
i think we all perfectlym undestand your situation, cuz i think we all have passed through it and its really frustrating!!!!
after the disaster with my hair and going to my way back home i’m just complaining about how horrible it was, about the hairdresser who’s ‘supposed’ to have a title of been ready for this challenge… the exigences of women!
seriously i think these people need to start again or quick the job.
It was very hard for me to find the right hairdresser i’ve got a lot of bad experience but now i’m really comfortable! and right now, i’m just waiting 4 my hair to grow long enough to make those crazy hairstyles :D

don’t worry Renee, 2 months come fast
and change hairdresser ;)
xoxo

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7 Renee October 20, 2009 at 10:30 am

Ahahhaha isn’t the picture great? :-P

I’ve had lots of bad experiences too. I think it has to do with me not wanting to spend a lot on my hair! :-P

And yes, two months passes fast … but I think I will need at least 6 months/1 year for the top bit, it is cut so short :(

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8 Jackie October 19, 2009 at 10:48 am

Totally feel your pain, girl! I had the worst hair last year… it was final exams time and I was stressed, so I decided to change my haircolor and maybe get a little trim. Well, the hair color part turned out perfect, so props to the colorist… but the haircut… OMG it was a disaster. The stylist was just supposed to trim off an inch or so and make sure the layers looked nice and proportionate, but she kept on cutting and cutting and cutting! At first I didn’t notice because I thought she was trimming my side-swept bangs, but next thing I know, she cut a HUGE chunk out of the top of my hair… I had a horrible thick layer all the way around my forehead. Imagine bangs-length but all the way around. The next layer started below my chin. I looked like a mushroom. I was fighting back tears and my friends being the great people that they are, told me the truth… that it looked hideous and i’ll probably have to wear a hat until it grows out. *Sigh*… so I suffered for about 6 months and then my hair finally grew out a little. I now have a paranoia of short layers! My hair has only long layers (and no bangs to avoid potential catastropher) from that day forward lol.

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9 Renee October 20, 2009 at 10:33 am

LOL Omg, sorry to hear that, Jackie. That sounds awful. What is with them – you ask for a trim and they keep cutting and cutting! They love their job too much :-P

Mine has awful layers too, like I wrote below for Rosa’s comment, it was cut all weird and it looks like a diamond shape. And I specifically asked for the back not to be cut in a straight line, NOT a ‘V’ shape, and you guessed it, that’s exactly what I got. Ughhh I was fuming when I left, so I FEEL your pain!

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10 Rosa October 19, 2009 at 9:38 pm

Hi Renee!
You should`ve posted a picture of you, I bet its not even that bad, everything looks good on pretty girls! :) But I know how you feel, I think all girls have experienced that at least once and I think the best tip is to get creative and use different accesories. I almost never wear clips or hats unless my hair`s dirty or I`m not having a good hair day :P so having a bad haircut can be a good opportunity to spice it up a bit :)
My dad has given me the shave it off advice several times…he says: ¨Go like me, you`d have no worries and it`s a lot cheaper….¨
He`s funny like that :)

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11 Renee October 20, 2009 at 10:31 am

Aw thanks Rosa, but it really is bad. I don’t know how to explain it but it was cut so short in the middle that it poofs out so much, so my hair looks like a diamond shape – thin at the top and bottom, crazy volume in the center. So weird! :-P

HAHAH your dad is adorable. Ah, it’s so easy for men, just shave it off, in one month everything is back to normal :-P

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12 Kaye October 20, 2009 at 12:07 am

Give it three days! I think every haircut deserves three days. If it still looks horrible, murder the hairdresser.
Kaye´s last blog … Review: Kose Sekkisei Medicated Lotion Mask

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13 Renee October 20, 2009 at 10:34 am

I’d love to but I would go to jail and will not be able to blog from my cell :-P

Yeah, been more than 3 days. Ugh, nah I won’t go back. I’ll just wait for it to grow and in the meantime tie it up. Sigh :’(

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14 Jinnie March 12, 2010 at 2:19 am

Hi there Renee, How’s your haircut now since October? I know exactly how you feel I had a terrible haircut last June, thinned out so much that there was barely anything there at all, I tied it up for 8 months til February of this year in the hope of a decent haircut and after 3 attempts now, I have messed up hair again!!! I’m back to a ponytail again after so badly wanting to wear it down. What is wrong with these hairdressers, they are all so scissor happy.

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15 Danielle October 20, 2009 at 2:53 pm

Hey beuatyfool, so sorry to hear about your haircut..good thing hair grows…but I think your male friend is onto something haha..SHAVE IT OFF..who knows..u might look HOT!

Great review..keep em coming

YOUR NO1 FAN DANIELLE

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16 Khai October 22, 2009 at 6:57 pm

Exactly renee!! You’re hot as it is… who care bout your hair! Shave it off:)) or you can wear the tudung, like me! haha

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17 Renee October 23, 2009 at 2:20 pm

NO I cannot shave it off! I like having hair, thank you! You silly girls! :-P :-P

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18 Imogen.. December 20, 2009 at 6:33 pm

Oh my gosh i know just what you mean, for christmas i asked to have my hair done really nicely – coloured and everything. I ask for a dark colour underneath and some reddy/brown bit through the top of my hair with a big fringe the tinnest bit of the length and a few soft layers. I got layers about 2 and a half inches long!!! i loved my long hair and now i hate it its awfull, i cant wait two months for it to grow back arghh “/ .I used to put big soft curls in and now all i can do is straighten it and that still looks pretty bad!
i’m really sorry to hear about your bad haircut Renee i feel your pain LOL!
x

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19 Renee December 21, 2009 at 9:47 pm

Aww Imogen! :( So we can feel each others pain now! Haha. Mine has grown a little bit, I think maybe 2 more months and this awful haircut will grow out and I can hopefully fix it. Hang in there … it really takes time and lots of ponytails! :-P

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20 Imogen.. December 21, 2009 at 9:51 pm

:L Thanks Renee. okay so i over reacted a little but still cant wait untill its all grown bakk.
Im sure its not as bad as you think honest! :) much luck LOL! .x

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21 yuki dca February 22, 2010 at 4:37 pm

ohh my goodness :)) thanks you for this tip!

my hair has left me in despair and :)) i really feel! angry or sad and shy! everytime i remembered my bangs! :(( and my mom really don’t understand what i feel now :(( i really can’t go to school like this! my bangs is sooo short! super! short! and i think it’s not a bangs anymore and now my hair looks like i have a Mohawk in the middle of my hair and the two other side have a long hair! i really! can’t stand my hair anymore! i tried all! my mom and me go to the salon and have a extension but nothings happen :(( its like the same!

but yeah! i realize it’s just a hair even its so hard for me co’z i really feel the pain but, now it’s just a hair sh*t happens so really thanks! for this tip! i love youuuuuu! :))
sorry for my bad english :))

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22 Lesley :) February 26, 2010 at 4:56 pm

Yuki I feel your pain :( i just got a really bad haircut too and tried extension but they didnt work either, thats how bad the cut it :(

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