From the category archives:

Self Image

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My answer is a big HELL YES! One of the things that has been stuck in my head for a few years was when I saw a young girl in the swimsuit shop, claiming she looked ‘fat’. She couldn’t have been more than 9 or 10! I think the world right now is extremely celebrity obsessed, don’t you? No one would want to buy certain jeans unless it has an extensive ‘celebrity’ client list. And I admit, I did see a bag Nicky Hilton once had and I decided I loved it and had to buy that bag too. But apart from just material things (they do get the latest and trendiest stuff to show us, after all), what about the standards of beauty?

Celebrities look so glamourous every part of the day – from red carpet photos, event photos, or paparazzi shots. Sure, you know all about re-touching after photo shoots, but what some don’t realize is that celebrities have personal trainers, personal makeup artists, and personal hair stylists at their wake and call. What messages is this giving young girls? Girls, if we all had that – we’d look like a million bucks running to the grocery store too.

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Also, this brings up the talk of makeovers – for the average girl, this happens at prom/birthdays/special events, where a makeover at the MAC store, a shopping spree and a nice haircut would suffice.

But in Hollywood, there is no such thing! From lip injections, nose jobs, breast implants, loss of weight, hair color, a tan, etc, they have drastically changed their appearance over the years.

I only bring this up because I saw a school mate from years ago recently who had moved to LA years earlier, only to be a complete product of celebrity obsession; blue contacts, light brown hair, double eyelid surgery … all this before she was 19! I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel a little bit sad/disgusted, sorry to say. :(

One celebrity I am very impressed with is Pink, especially with her ‘Stupid Girls’ music video, where she basically bashed some of the young celebrities and the ‘stupid’ stuff they do. Watch it, it’s great! The song is great too, I think it sums up some of the things happening in today’s youth pretty well, we need more women like this!

Go to Fred Segal, you’ll find them there
Laughing loud so all the little people stare
Looking for a daddy to pay for the champagne
What happened to the dreams of a girl president
She’s dancing in the video next to 50 Cent
They travel in packs of two or three
With their itsy bitsy doggies and their teeny-weeny tees
Where, oh where, have the smart people gone?
Oh where, oh where could they be?

Maybe if I act like that, that guy will call me back
Porno Paparazzi girl, I don’t wanna be a stupid girl
Baby if I act like that, flipping my blond hair back
Push up my bra like that, I don’t wanna be a stupid girl

Disease’s growing, it’s epidemic
I’m scared that there ain’t a cure
The world believes it and I’m going crazy
I cannot take any more
I’m so glad that I’ll never fit in
That will never be me
Outcasts and girls with ambition
That’s what I wanna see

pink-stupid-girlI’d like to know your thoughts on this – you know mine! Is Hollywood and the celebrity culture getting ‘too much’ now? Are the standards of beauty completely unrealistic and are setting bad examples to the young girls today? Do let me know your thoughts, this should be very interesting.

Images: Daily Motion, Pop Sugar
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Glamour magazine caused quite a stir (and a good one, at that) when they published this photo of 20 year old model Lizzi Miller in their September issue (pg. 194).

lizzie-miller-glamour“When I was young I really struggled with my body and how it looked because I didn’t understand why my friends were so effortlessly skinny.

“I’ve been that girl, flipping through magazines trying to find just one person who looked a little bit like me. And when I didn’t find it I would start to think there’s something wrong with the way that I looked. When J. Lo and Beyoncé came out and were making curves sexy, I started to accept myself more. It’s funny, but just seeing them look and feel sexy enabled me to do the same.”

And now she’s doing just that for other women! You can read more about her here.

Smiling, happy, beautiful – and perfectly normal, Lizzi is a real inspiration for all women. Kudos to Glamour; I only hope they keep this up. What do you think of this photo?

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Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” – Marilyn Monroe

My favorite ‘imperfection’ I have is a scar dead center on my forehead. I wish I had a cool story, but it really is silly! I got it when I was 5, on New Year’s Eve – I was dancing around and wanted to do some fancy move, when BAM! I slammed my forehead into the glass table, and then, naturally, being 5 … I started screaming my head off.

I haven’t had much comments about them, except one girl who I’d just met very sarcastically asked if I’d ever considered laser to remove it. I told her very nonchalantly that I thought it made me look badass (a joke!), but in hindsight I should’ve said – and will in the future – that I did it myself to show my devotion to Harry Potter. The reactions would be priceless. :)

What ‘imperfections’ do you love about yourself?

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From the time we were 13-16, my best friend C and I loved reading two top Australian teen magazines, Girlfriend and Dolly. C would buy Girlfriend, me Dolly, and then we’d hang out and read them, then swap! I always loved their stories, advice, pictures, and stance on moral issues, especially bullying and problems at school.

The other week I saw these magazines on the newsstand and I had to repurchase – I wondered what they were up to! And I’m happy to report that they are doing even better things.

Girlfriend (who is now printed on 100% recycled paper) has launched a self-respect campaign and started it off by banning celebrities from their pages who act as if they have no self-respect namely Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan. Dolly has also banned retouching in their beauty shots; so you will see girls in their natural state. Their celebrities pictures also tend to be red carpet pics, rather than photo-shoots that are photoshopped to death afterward!

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I’m am so so happy about these two teen magazines and how they are using their influence to empower young girls and educate them about photoshopping, self-respect, and other issues teen girls face today. I definitely think girls are growing up way too fast these days and they need to be educated and empowered. I can only hope that my blog sends the same message.

Either way, screw magazines for my age! I’m going to relive my teen years. :-P (And seriously, how can you pass up a mag when RPattz is looking at you like that?!)

What are, or were some of your favorite teen magazines? I also really loved ELLEGirl and YM from the US. Sad to say they closed down a few years ago. :(

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And if you do, why do you read them? While I was in Europe this summer, I traveled around a bit so I bought every English women’s fashion magazine I could find to keep me entertained in the plane. And plus; I admit it – they are my guilty pleasures! Some articles are just laughable, but there is definitely a lot of great information in them.

I came across this article by a fantastic blogger, Vered from Mom Grind, called Women’s Magazines: Why You Should Stop Reading Them. I’m personally passionate about that first reason as I look at some of the models in the fashion spreads and ads and I’m just appalled. This lead me to write my blog post, What goes on behind that image … and why you shouldn’t compare yourself to them.

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Anyway, check out that article at Mom Grind and let me know what you think! I’m intrigued - I think everything she wrote is true, and I can’t believe how I have missed some of this. I mostly read these magazines for the beauty sections, but the ‘real-life’ articles are pretty great as well. 

Let me know what you think about women fashion magazines: Are they just cashing in on insecurities? Are they really bad for self-esteem? Also, which female fashion magazines do you read, and why do you read them? I’d love to hear your input and comments on them!

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This post was originally about how to survive the horrible day that is School Picture Day since schools are opening again soon, but I realized that pretty much every portrait photos need a little help!

You know what I’m talking about – passport photos, driver’s license, school ID cards – don’t know about you but mine have all been horrible! Ask anyone to see their ID/card and they will all squeal, “no, it’s such a bad picture!”

Hopefully this post can help you prepare for that photo-taking day.

Clothes

  • Whatever your size – choose something that is form fitting so that you can show off your shape! Big, oversized hoodies (guilty!), sweatshirts, t-shirts take up most of the photo and your head will look tiny compared to it!
     
  • Choose a flattering neckline. Turtlenecks are a big no no, unless you would like your photo to look like a floating head!
     
  • Keep it simple – patterns, wild prints and images may be distracting. A simple cut, like a V- or scooped neck shirt would be better. Same for the fashion style – try to keep the trends to a minimum.
     
  • Colors. So, prints overpower the face; brights (red, yellow) call too much attention and neutrals and flesh tones (beige, white, cream) wash you out and take away the attention from your face. Now what? Colors that look best on film are medium to dark tones like as rust, burgundy, green, brown or blue.

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I love Bobbi Brown. I really do. But when I saw the new photo to promote her new Nautical makeup Collection (right), I had to cringe. The model has been photoshopped so much that she doesn’t look like a human being anymore!

I know that I have a lot of younger readers that may not know what goes on behind the very manipulated images that are spread across the media. So I decided to write a post to hopefully educate some of you, so that you would never compare yourself to another model, actress, or woman in an ad again, because I’m sure we’ve all been there. Not to mention, it harms your self-esteem as well. (My post, How to Start Building Self-Esteem may be of interest.)

To put it bluntly – you will never live up to the standards the media portrays as ‘beautiful’ because it is simply not real. The sooner you know that the better!

This post I have written is based on my experience. I’ve worked in front of the camera (don’t tell) when I was younger, and behind the scenes when I was interning at a fashion magazine… and plus I’m a media student, so I’m quite aware of what goes on.  

Some images are more retouched than others, so they may not “follow” exactly what I’m writing, but I’m sure I’m pretty close; so you can get the main idea:

1. Brainstorming

The medium (TV ad, print ad, magazine cover, etc.) that needs an image brainstorms to what “look” will properly sell and convey their brand image. This usually involves an art director, creative director, or magazine editors. Countless meetings later, the “heads” will decide what direction to go in and move forward with the preparation. 

 

2. Finding the ‘Perfect’ Model

The model is chosen based on her “look”. Hair color, body type, race, height, ability to convey the message, etc. are taken into account. This involves casting agents/model bookers, art director, photographers, fashion editors.

3. At the Shoot

Hair and makeup are done by professionals. This may include contouring to make the nose slimmer, sharper jaw, emphasize cheekbones, as well as false eyelashes, extended lip lines, wigs, hair extensions, and whatever is needed. Hair and makeup can take up to 4 hours.

Clothes are then put on, and could involved clothes pinned back, tape for a bigger cleavage, or spanx to make the model look slimmer. People involved are stylists, hairstylist, makeup artist, and assistants. 

4. During the Shoot

Depending on the model’s ability and the creative directors satisfaction, shoots can last for hours, if not days to get the ‘perfect’ shot. People involved are the creative director, photographer, assistants, and all the stylists for touchups. Sometimes the “big guy” (editor, manager, etc) is there to overlook everything. 

5. After the Shoot

Ah, now for the fun bit! A photo editor or retoucher is called in, after the ‘perfect’ shot has been submitted to them. Some of the retouching includes photoshopping for:

  • slimmer thighs, hips, waist, and arms,
  • shading for deeper cheekbones, slimmer jawlines, slimmer nose, etc
  • whiter teeth, whiter eyes, shiny nails
  • bigger lips, fuller hair, bigger bust line
  • blemishes and zits removed, lines erased, 
  • brightening of colors: brighter blue eyes, brighter hair, makeup and clothes colors, etc.
  • digital makeup: longer eyelashes, darker colors, richer colors, more blush, etc.
  • …and the list goes on and on. 

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